Collaborative

Oppositional

About understanding

About proving others wrong

Listening for deeper meaning

Listening for flaws

Reevaluating assumptions

Defending assumptions

Keeping an open mind

Close-minded

About temporarily suspending beliefs

About defending beliefs

Searching for strength or validity in all ideas

Searching for weaknesses in ideas

About respecting all participants

About belittling or demeaning others

Exploring different possibilities

Having one right answer

Open-ended

Demands a conclusion